Miss communication

Nowadays is common listen diverse theories about the differences between men and women, some ones referred to the incomprehension, and misunderstanding between person of different sex, but that have the same language.

Many authors, speakers, comedians repeat the same questions: who will teach us the language between men and women? When will be the day that they can understand? Why is easier learn a new language, that to understand the “men’s language” or “women’s language”? Which factors affect this communication? , and the most important question for develop this work is: How the man and the woman can have the same language (language), but at the same time a different one (langue)?

If we want to answer the last questions is important to emphasis that men and women are different biological, physical, and psychologically, and these differences affects the production and how the message is perceived, for example we have more serotonin receptors than the men, and because of we are more emotional, if we start from this idea, what happens if a woman grows in a climate where emotions can not be demonstrated? Could the language production change? If that is the case, then culture can affect the production of the language.

Since ancient times women and men were educated in different ways. Women can demonstrate their emotions, they have a different relation among their friends, sisters or persons of the same sex, the feelings can be demonstrated, they are able to cry in public, and all this is normal for society, but for men the things are quite different because they need to be strong, calculating, and cold. These differences between how to express their ideas, the attitude, gestures and all things that are used to communicate, sometimes may lead into different issues like marriage problems, discrimination, and all the incomprehension problems.

In one study women clocked in talking approximately 25,000 words a day versus 12,000 in men’s production. So this demonstrates why men and women sometimes cannot understand one another; women hope to enrich comments, while men provide only the necessary information.

As a conclusion, when the different genders understand that this linguistic and cultural barrier exists, they can be more aware and understanding when miscommunication occurs.

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