Behavior

Behavior

Behavior is something very important and tricky at the same time. In order for your children to have good behavior you have to teach them so they will learn. Their behavior depends on their emotions and feelings.

Normally a child’s behavior has a lot to do with their environment at home, which has to do with the parents. It is their responsibility to guide them. They need to show them what is appropriate.

Parents are role modals for their children so if they are always worried and anxious, the child will see that and then have anxiety. Parents need to be open with their children and as well as children need to be with them. It is important that they learn how to express their feelings correctly. It is not healthy for a child to hide their emotions because then they wont learn how to control them properly.

It's often difficult for parents to understand their children's behavior. Sometimes it seems as if children are behaving in ways that annoy or upsets their parents. And sometimes they are, but it's important to understand that children, like adults, behave in ways that help them meet their needs. If parents can understand the motive or need behind a child's behavior they are less likely to become upset and more likely to deal with the problem behaviors.

We all have certain basic needs for love, attention, belonging and feeling important. Children may try many different behaviors to meet these needs and get what they want. Parents can encourage and reinforce behaviors that are acceptable and discourage inappropriate behaviors depending on their response to them. For example, a child who throws a tantrum in the store and gets the candy bar he wanted has received attention and feels important. He is likely to throw another tantrum the next time he wants or need something because his parents have just reinforced his behavior with their response.

Overall it is the parent’s responsibility to teach their children and they are the ones who influence them. They need to be firm and let the kids know what is right and wrong. If you teach them correctly they will learn fast.

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